{"id":9549,"date":"2022-06-27T11:15:24","date_gmt":"2022-06-27T15:15:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/?p=9549"},"modified":"2022-07-22T14:15:23","modified_gmt":"2022-07-22T18:15:23","slug":"the-road-less-travelled","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/2022\/06\/27\/the-road-less-travelled\/","title":{"rendered":"The Road Less Travelled"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"9549\" class=\"elementor elementor-9549\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-6a723b6e elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"6a723b6e\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;,&quot;shape_divider_bottom&quot;:&quot;curve&quot;,&quot;shape_divider_bottom_negative&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-background-overlay\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-shape elementor-shape-bottom\" aria-hidden=\"true\" data-negative=\"true\">\n\t\t\t<svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 1000 100\" preserveAspectRatio=\"none\">\n\t<path class=\"elementor-shape-fill\" d=\"M500,97C126.7,96.3,0.8,19.8,0,0v100l1000,0V1C1000,19.4,873.3,97.8,500,97z\"\/>\n<\/svg>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-291dda8b\" data-id=\"291dda8b\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6f68c107 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"6f68c107\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">The Road Less Travelled<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-55aba20a elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"55aba20a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-70a4daf6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"70a4daf6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Revisiting a timeless masterpiece of a book.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-12d75158 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"12d75158\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-1f75aff1\" data-id=\"1f75aff1\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-124c4524 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"124c4524\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-medium\">Life is Difficult<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-76486256 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"76486256\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>This is the opening premise of M. Scott Peck&#8217;s timeless self-help masterpiece. He says that the sooner you accept this truth, the easier your life will become. &#8220;Once we truly know that life is difficult, once we truly understand and accept it, then life is no longer difficult. Because once it is accepted, the fact that life is difficult no longer matters.&#8221;<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-751415d3 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"751415d3\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-54a728b6\" data-id=\"54a728b6\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-51043d9c elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"51043d9c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-medium\">Revisiting a Classic<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1e24667 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1e24667\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Way back in 1995, in the very early days of my awakening, my first therapist suggested I get 3 books:<\/p><ul><li>The Road Less Travelled, by M. Scott Peck<\/li><li>People of the Lie, also by M. Scott Peck<\/li><li>You Can Heal Your Life, by Louise Hay<\/li><\/ul><p>I got all three and consumed them, each a revelation. Since that first reading of The Road Less Travelled, I have read and listened to it many, many times. While some of its references are dated, the message is resoundingly relevant.<\/p><p>On my walk this morning, I decided to dust it off yet again, and was astounded at how much the opening resonated with me. How could it be that I could be on this self-development journey for almost 30 years, when perhaps I had &#8220;the answer&#8221; (I&#8217;m always seeking &#8220;the answer&#8221;.) all along.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-ad10246 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"ad10246\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-9227ea2\" data-id=\"9227ea2\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9a61994 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"9a61994\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-medium\">Solving problems is painful.<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f64afdf elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f64afdf\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>He begins with the idea that life involves an ongoing process of solving problems. &#8220;What makes life difficult is that solving problems is painful.&#8221; Problems evoke a variety of uncomfortable feelings and pain. S<span style=\"font-size: 18px;\">ince life provides us with an ongoing series of problems, life is full of pain, as well as joy.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-29a40e38 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"29a40e38\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-548935f2\" data-id=\"548935f2\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1597768e elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"1597768e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Yet, it's where we find meaning. <\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5aa578a8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5aa578a8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>&#8220;Yet, it is in meeting and solving problems that life has its meaning.\u00a0<\/p><p>&#8220;Problems are the cutting edge that distinguishes between success and failure. Problems call for our courage and our wisdom. Indeed, they create our courage and our wisdom. It is only because of problems that we grow mentally and spiritually. Wise people learn, not to dread, but to actually welcome problems and the pain of problems.\u00a0<\/p><p>&#8220;Most of us are not so wise. Feeling the pain involved, most of us attempt to avoid problems. This tendency to avoid problems and the emotional suffering inherent is the primary psychological basis of all mental illness. Since most of us have this tendency to a greater or lesser degree, most of us are mentally ill to a greater or lesser degree.&#8221;<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-29244a6a elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"29244a6a\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-7d78f203\" data-id=\"7d78f203\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-517b6bcb elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"517b6bcb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Avoiding our Problems Causes Suffering<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-65cf7363 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"65cf7363\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>&#8220;Some of us go to extraordinary lengths to avoid our problems and the suffering they cause. We build the most elaborate fantasies in which to live, sometimes to the\u00a0 total exclusion of reality. In the words of Carl Jung, neurosis is always a substitute for legitimate suffering. But, the substitute itself ultimately because more painful that the legitimate suffering it was designed to avoid. Neurosis itself becomes the biggest problem.\u00a0<\/p><p>&#8220;True to form, many will attempt to avoid this pain and this problem, building layer upon layer of neurosis. <span style=\"font-size: 18px;\">When we avoid the legitimate suffering that results from dealing with problems, we also avoid the growth the problems demand from us.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-20f43aca elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"20f43aca\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-355e45bb\" data-id=\"355e45bb\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6990b0bd elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"6990b0bd\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">We become stuck.<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1a58bb25 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1a58bb25\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&#8220;In chronic mental illness\u00a0 we stop growing, we become stuck. Without healing, the human spirit begins to shrivel.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&#8220;Therefore, let us inculcate in ourselves and in our children, the means of achieving mental and spiritual health. Let us teach ourselves and our children how to face problems directly and how to experience the pain involved.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-c168969 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"c168969\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-6252ca7\" data-id=\"6252ca7\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8572fa4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"8572fa4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">On the road less travelled.<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-08e143d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"08e143d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-size: 18px;\">It&#8217;s on this lonely road where we accept that life is a series of problems to be solved. Once we do that, we turn towards those problems, no matter how uncomfortable we feel.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p>There is no fantasy finish line, beyond which we will be happy.\u00a0<span style=\"font-family: 'Open Sans', sans-serif; font-size: 18px; font-style: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s more of an unravelling where, on an ongoing basis, we turn towards our problems, often revisiting old problems, at deeper levels.<\/span><\/p><p>Within these depths, in the mysteries of life, we find our true selves, our meaning We forget about destinations and learn to enjoy the journey, both the good parts and the challenging parts.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bb55366 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"bb55366\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/journey-6.png?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail wp-image-4458\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/journey-6.png?w=2560&amp;ssl=1 2560w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/journey-6.png?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/journey-6.png?resize=1024%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/journey-6.png?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/journey-6.png?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/journey-6.png?resize=1536%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/journey-6.png?resize=2048%2C2048&amp;ssl=1 2048w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/journey-6.png?w=2400&amp;ssl=1 2400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-83918d9 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"83918d9\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-ed654d8\" data-id=\"ed654d8\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-79b088d8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"79b088d8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Road Less Travelled Revisiting a timeless masterpiece of a book. Life is Difficult This is the opening premise of M. Scott Peck&#8217;s timeless self-help masterpiece. 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