{"id":7640,"date":"2021-02-25T18:02:00","date_gmt":"2021-02-25T23:02:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/?p=7640"},"modified":"2021-02-26T16:18:29","modified_gmt":"2021-02-26T21:18:29","slug":"discover-your-true-nature","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/2021\/02\/25\/discover-your-true-nature\/","title":{"rendered":"Discover Your True Nature"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"7640\" class=\"elementor elementor-7640\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-523be771 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"523be771\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;,&quot;shape_divider_bottom&quot;:&quot;curve&quot;,&quot;shape_divider_bottom_negative&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-background-overlay\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-shape elementor-shape-bottom\" aria-hidden=\"true\" data-negative=\"true\">\n\t\t\t<svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 1000 100\" preserveAspectRatio=\"none\">\n\t<path class=\"elementor-shape-fill\" d=\"M500,97C126.7,96.3,0.8,19.8,0,0v100l1000,0V1C1000,19.4,873.3,97.8,500,97z\"\/>\n<\/svg>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-287ce3a1\" data-id=\"287ce3a1\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-75109503 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"75109503\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Discover your true nature.<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1de34fd7 elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"1de34fd7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-263eb703 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"263eb703\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-3a60587\" data-id=\"3a60587\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2740e883 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"2740e883\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-medium\">Discover Your True Nature<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2f6f993d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2f6f993d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>At one point in my career, I worked out of an office near the Toronto airport. One many winter evenings, after working late in my windowless office, I walked alone across the dark, icy, empty, industrial park parking lot.\u00a0<\/p><p>With no trees to break its speed, the wind whipped at me, and I vowed more than once to get a coat that actually kept me warm. I hated it that vast parking lot. It seemed to symbolize the unending emptiness I felt those days.<\/p><p>Yet, I felt like I should be happy. I had it pretty good. So, why did I feel so bad?<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-54c6fd6 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"54c6fd6\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-b81bded\" data-id=\"b81bded\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-31b169a3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"31b169a3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-medium\">Choice vs. Taking what's been handed to us.<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-486cf1b4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"486cf1b4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>For many of us, what has felt like a series of choices, has in fact been us taking what\u2019s been handed to us. We take what\u2019s next, what\u2019s expected of us. We look around at others and take our cues from them.\u00a0<\/p><p>This works really well when we&#8217;re younger. But there&#8217;s a certain point where it doesn&#8217;t feel right anymore.\u00a0<span style=\"font-family: 'Open Sans', sans-serif; font-size: 18px; font-style: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s not entirely wrong, but it\u2019s not exactly right either, which makes it tricky. The temptation is to ignore this feeling, but when we do, it grows within us &#8211; this feeling of things not being quite right.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-20a1536b elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"20a1536b\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-17e7f555\" data-id=\"17e7f555\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-44bf88ef elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"44bf88ef\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">We're not always planted in the right place.<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2558f4dd elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2558f4dd\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Without us really realizing it we\u2019re often a flower in a desert or a cactus in a stream. Or, if you\u2019re me, you\u2019re a frozen flower unable to take root in an icy parking lot.\u00a0<\/p><p>I did the right things, checked all the boxes, and still I wasn\u2019t thriving.\u00a0<span style=\"font-size: 18px;\">That\u2019s because I spent my time trying to solve a symptom, not the root problem.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-35011bd6 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"35011bd6\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-7206e88\" data-id=\"7206e88\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2db21c39 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"2db21c39\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">What exactly is the root problem?<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-58dc5508 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"58dc5508\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>We\u2019ve lost track of our true nature. Instead of being where we\u2019re meant to be, and growing and evolving in a natural way, we\u2019re put our effort into solving the symptoms of trying to fit in. We look at depress as the problem to solve or even as a personal failing. We try to get over our depression, or manage our discontent, or hide on weekends to get our energy back.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-4903c6d elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"4903c6d\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-502d7e2\" data-id=\"502d7e2\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-15301c1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"15301c1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">If a flower isn't thriving, you don't blame the flower.<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fd8b937 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"fd8b937\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>If your garden is lack-luster, you look at the soil, the water supply, the sunlight. You observe the seasons, and the cycles of nature. If a flower isn&#8217;t thriving, you don&#8217;t blame the flower.<\/p><p>You create the conditions for thriving and let the flower do its thing. It can\u2019t get it wrong because it\u2019s following its true nature.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-b7e0e16 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"b7e0e16\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-ab0b63c\" data-id=\"ab0b63c\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d3a5099 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"d3a5099\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">How do you create the conditions for you?<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-74baaa1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"74baaa1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Start with creating the conditions where you are now. What is your equivalent of nutritious soil, of life-giving water, of warm sunshine? What seeds are waiting to be planted? I realize there may be constraints, but what if \u2026<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-66b09866 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"66b09866\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-2724ad8b\" data-id=\"2724ad8b\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d67b740 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"d67b740\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Use the metaphor to come up with ideas for yourself.<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4b29ca02 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4b29ca02\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Create Space \u2013 (A Plot for the Garden): What space could you create or carve out for yourself at work? Maybe it\u2019s space for a new project. Maybe it\u2019s to work less. Maybe it&#8217;s for a walk at lunchtime.<\/p><p>Give it Life: (Water): When are you in flow at work? Do you like working by yourself, or do you feel most yourself when leading a team?<\/p><p>Let it warm you: (Sunlight): Where and in what ways do you naturally shine? Is there a way to intentionally do more of that vs. what you think you &#8220;should&#8221; do? Can you delegate where you don&#8217;t shine?<\/p><p>Plant what you love \u2013 (Seeds, bulbs, plants): What vision, products, ideas have been floating around in your mind for a while? Could you Create Space (above) and start identifying (ideating, brainstorming) and narrowing it down? Could you plant seeds with others?<\/p><p>Open \u2013 (Bloom) Be curious. Be open to the new possibilities within you. I&#8217;m willing to bet that you have some great ideas that just need some space and nurturuing.<\/p><p>If you don\u2019t know where to begin, start right at the beginning by getting to know your own ecology. 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Discover Your True Nature At one point in my career, I worked out of an office near the Toronto airport. 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