{"id":3341,"date":"2019-06-08T07:23:10","date_gmt":"2019-06-08T11:23:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/?p=3341"},"modified":"2022-07-19T11:51:56","modified_gmt":"2022-07-19T15:51:56","slug":"why-you-dont-know-what-you-want","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/2019\/06\/08\/why-you-dont-know-what-you-want\/","title":{"rendered":"Why You Don&#8217;t Know What You Want"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"3341\" class=\"elementor elementor-3341\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-3c38a33 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3c38a33\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;,&quot;shape_divider_bottom&quot;:&quot;curve&quot;,&quot;shape_divider_bottom_negative&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-background-overlay\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-shape elementor-shape-bottom\" aria-hidden=\"true\" data-negative=\"true\">\n\t\t\t<svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 1000 100\" preserveAspectRatio=\"none\">\n\t<path class=\"elementor-shape-fill\" d=\"M500,97C126.7,96.3,0.8,19.8,0,0v100l1000,0V1C1000,19.4,873.3,97.8,500,97z\"\/>\n<\/svg>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-6ce94bb6\" data-id=\"6ce94bb6\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-59ea234f elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"59ea234f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Why You Don't Know What You Want<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5c4a434e elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"5c4a434e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-592950b8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"592950b8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>(It&#8217;s Not Your Fault.)<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-4f22b1a elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"4f22b1a\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-b840a7b\" data-id=\"b840a7b\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-178363c elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"178363c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">The Great Yearning<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-da3dc30 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"da3dc30\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>There is something bittersweet about yearning. It\u2019s our soul\u2019s call to us that we\u2019re meant for more, that there is something meaningful for us to be doing. Yet, too much yearning doesn\u2019t feel so great. That\u2019s because yearning is meant to be a call. It\u2019s not meant to be a constant companion. You\u2019re supposed to get the call and then do something. But what?<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e897064 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"e897064\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/yearn.png?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail wp-image-3349\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/yearn.png?w=2560&amp;ssl=1 2560w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/yearn.png?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/yearn.png?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/yearn.png?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/yearn.png?resize=1024%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/yearn.png?w=2400&amp;ssl=1 2400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-f8ab4b5 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"f8ab4b5\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-f41bc4d\" data-id=\"f41bc4d\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1daf802 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"1daf802\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Why am I Stuck?<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8d1414c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"8d1414c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Do you look around and feel like you\u2019re the only one with this deep, enduring desire for more? Do others seem to be on a path? Do you often feel like you\u2019re the only one who doesn\u2019t know what you want to do with your life?<\/p><p>In the middle of life, the yearning seems to get more intense. Maybe it\u2019s because we feel like we\u2019ve tried everything, and we\u2019re still not \u201cthere\u201d yet. Or, we\u2019ve been thinking about it for so long and haven\u2019t gotten any further than that. It\u2019s just not going to happen for us.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bbed965 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"bbed965\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/stuck.png?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail wp-image-3348\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/stuck.png?w=2560&amp;ssl=1 2560w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/stuck.png?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/stuck.png?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/stuck.png?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/stuck.png?resize=1024%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/stuck.png?w=2400&amp;ssl=1 2400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-bca5123 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"bca5123\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-0b8c5a0\" data-id=\"0b8c5a0\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-62eeaac elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"62eeaac\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">What's Wrong with Me?<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c40b4b5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c40b4b5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Often the default is to think there\u2019s something wrong with you \u2013 that others can have what they want, but it\u2019s just not meant to happen for you. That\u2019s when you try to be happy with what you already have. That\u2019s when you dive into life\u2019s distractions. That works for a little while and then you loop back to your yearning.<\/p><p>What if there\u2019s a reason you feel lost and you could fix that reason?<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d591d2e elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"d591d2e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/disappointed.png?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail wp-image-3350\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/disappointed.png?w=2560&amp;ssl=1 2560w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/disappointed.png?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/disappointed.png?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/disappointed.png?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/disappointed.png?resize=1024%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/disappointed.png?w=2400&amp;ssl=1 2400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-efacb34 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"efacb34\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-ffffb11\" data-id=\"ffffb11\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0c52123 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"0c52123\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">The Truth: You. Are. A. Genius.<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6d45133 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6d45133\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Do you ever watch little kids and marvel at their joy? Why does one child seem intent on chasing the cat while the other loves to put things together? Why does one kid love to jump off a diving board and the other likes to paddle around the shallow end? It\u2019s because we\u2019re all different. We come into this world with curiosity about different things, delighted by what lights us up, excited to explore what seems interesting to us. That\u2019s us. Our original, essential selves are delighted, curious, experimenting, wanting to do things because they feel good.<\/p><p>We\u2019re plopped into families who may or may not see us, or may not nurture our differences. We\u2019re taught in school as if we\u2019re blank slates, not original geniuses full of ideas. We\u2019re socialized so we fit in. Everything is easier that way. Or is it?<\/p><p>All this doesn&#8217;t erase the fact that you were then, and still are, a genius, meant for a life where you fluorish.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e405270 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"e405270\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/inspire.png?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail wp-image-3347\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/inspire.png?w=2560&amp;ssl=1 2560w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/inspire.png?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/inspire.png?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/inspire.png?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/inspire.png?resize=1024%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/inspire.png?w=2400&amp;ssl=1 2400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-8c937f6 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"8c937f6\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-84e69da\" data-id=\"84e69da\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-86730d1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"86730d1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">The World Didn't Set Us Up To Succeed<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2925065 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2925065\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Ask yourself the following questions*. To flourish as your true self in this world, did you get everything you needed as a child?<\/p><ul><li style=\"text-align: left;\">Were you treated as if you had a unique kind of genius?<\/li><li style=\"text-align: left;\">Were you told you could be anything you wanted?<\/li><li style=\"text-align: left;\">Were you given real help and encouragement in finding out what you wanted to do \u2013 and how to do it?<\/li><li style=\"text-align: left;\">Were you encouraged to explore all your talents and interests, even if they changed from day to day?<\/li><li style=\"text-align: left;\">Were you allowed to complain when the going got rough? Were you given sympathy instead of being told to quit.<\/li><li style=\"text-align: left;\">Were you bailed out if you got in over your head? Without reproach?<\/li><li style=\"text-align: left;\">Did you have role models, in your day-to-day life, who were completely absorbed in what they were doing?<ul><li>Contented, curious, open, vital, trust life, respect themselves<\/li><li>Trying, failing, without blaming<\/li><\/ul><\/li><li style=\"text-align: left;\">Were you encouraged to experiment in your own unique way?<\/li><\/ul><div style=\"text-align: left;\">*<span style=\"color: #808000;\"><a style=\"color: #808000;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Wishcraft-How-What-Really-Want\/dp\/0345465180\/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=wishcraft&amp;qid=1559994725&amp;s=gateway&amp;sr=8-1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Wishcraft<\/a><\/span>, Barbara Sher<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-dfef7ae elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"dfef7ae\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/heartsquiggle.png?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail wp-image-3106\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/heartsquiggle.png?w=2560&amp;ssl=1 2560w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/heartsquiggle.png?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/heartsquiggle.png?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/heartsquiggle.png?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/heartsquiggle.png?resize=1024%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/heartsquiggle.png?w=2400&amp;ssl=1 2400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-4f3880c elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"4f3880c\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-8863cc6\" data-id=\"8863cc6\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e60fa04 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"e60fa04\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">We Can Stop Blaming Ourselves Now<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-aa3f9b8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"aa3f9b8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>To really know who you are, who you\u2019re meant to be, you needed certain conditions. Like a flower, you needed good soil, some fertilizer, some sun, to be watered consistently.<\/p><p>Would you expect a flower to grow if you just threw a seed onto some concrete? Would you check it every day and be disappointed in it? Would you blame the seed for being flawed? Would you just wish it would grow?\u00a0<\/p><p>For some reason, we think that we should be able to figure out what we want without creating the conditions for it. We think we can just wish it into being. So, we wish, we yearn, and like the seed on concrete, nothing grows.<\/p><p>Blaming ourselves got us here. Let&#8217;s get empowered instead.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fd575f6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"fd575f6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/heartspread2.png?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail wp-image-3120\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/heartspread2.png?w=2560&amp;ssl=1 2560w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/heartspread2.png?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/heartspread2.png?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/heartspread2.png?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/heartspread2.png?resize=1024%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/heartspread2.png?w=2400&amp;ssl=1 2400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-5424d11 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5424d11\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-a56f03a\" data-id=\"a56f03a\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-78720d1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"78720d1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">We Have the Power<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-aeb7b8e elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"aeb7b8e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>This is in no way about blaming our parents. They did their best, and maybe you even answered \u201cYes\u201d to some of the questions. But, if you\u2019re stuck in yearning, isn\u2019t it possible that you\u2019re trying to grow and change without giving yourself what you need?<\/p><p>The good news is that you are now a grown-ass woman who can create those conditions. You can create an environment where you can start to put a \u201cYes\u201d beside those questions and others. You can create the conditions, find the way, do the things.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7e2bb95 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"7e2bb95\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/purpleheart.png?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail wp-image-2897\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/purpleheart.png?w=2560&amp;ssl=1 2560w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/purpleheart.png?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/purpleheart.png?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/purpleheart.png?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/purpleheart.png?resize=1024%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/purpleheart.png?w=2400&amp;ssl=1 2400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-4f0817e elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"4f0817e\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-b0c02e7\" data-id=\"b0c02e7\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4132197 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4132197\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Where to Start?<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-73d68f0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"73d68f0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Have compassion for yourself. Easier said than done. Think of yourself as that little, curious child. Give her (you) what she needs, and by extension give it to your present-day self.<\/p><p>Tell Yourself a New Story &#8230; Up until now, you didn&#8217;t know what, how, why. But there is a way, and you are completely capable of figuring it out.<\/p><p>Trust that you are unique and that you are attracted to certain things for a reason, that you have a unique intelligence designed for what you\u2019re meant to be in this world, that you love things others don\u2019t, that you have a natural way of being in the world. Notice these things. Don\u2019t dismiss them. Trust that there is a reason you want certain things, even if they make no sense now.<\/p><p>Be curious.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4e3244f elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"4e3244f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/seedling.png?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail wp-image-3352\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/seedling.png?w=2560&amp;ssl=1 2560w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/seedling.png?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/seedling.png?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/seedling.png?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/seedling.png?resize=1024%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/karenharbin.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/seedling.png?w=2400&amp;ssl=1 2400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-1ab0e92 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"1ab0e92\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-97e2ced\" data-id=\"97e2ced\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ba156c6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"ba156c6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Don't Wait for Others. Give Yourself What You Really Need.<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d8fb8be elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"d8fb8be\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Plant yourself in rich soil, in that spot in the garden that gets the morning light, and beneath that leafy tree that shelters you from the hot afternoon sun. Water yourself generously, but not too much. Surround you with other seeds, other flowers, other plants. Enjoy the bunnies hopping by, the squirrels&#8217; antics. Listen to the birds sing their morning songs, signaling the start of a new day. Dream your garden alive.<\/p><p>Create the conditions for you to be you, to grow in your own unique way. When you do this, you flourish. You become you.<\/p><p>The yearning has done its job. It called to you and you answered. You don\u2019t have to feel its ache. 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